The Bottom Line
You're feeling confused about what you want to do today. You have too many options.
In Detail
The good news is that you are at the beginning stages of a remarkable self-transformation. The bad news is that consequently, you might be feeling confused about what you want to do today. You won't have a lack of options, but you will have a lack of interest in any of them. It might seem odd to start off a transformation with such ambivalence, but just hang in there. It's once you start to sort through your options that the real transformation begins.
Self-transformation? Sounds cool. I am waiting for things to happen then...
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Painting for the Future
Painting for the future, a charity work that I joined in April. Basically, we helped and need to paint the PDK centre, give the special kids a whole new surrounding to stay with. This is the second time for me to paint, quite excited about that.
By the way, suppose to update this long long time ago, just that I also don't know why I keep on dragging it. Till now I almost forget what happening that day already. However, a picture is worth more than thousands words, right? Here come the pictures... ^^
Before the painting start
I love the mirror reflection, ^^"
Spoiler of the picture? Me? Ian? Chan?
Wai Yen, Me and Apple
Group photo after lunch
Willliam has the brightest smile, agree with that?
Lee Hui with my leg, lol~~~
Photos section again at the end of the day
By the way, suppose to update this long long time ago, just that I also don't know why I keep on dragging it. Till now I almost forget what happening that day already. However, a picture is worth more than thousands words, right? Here come the pictures... ^^
Before the painting start
I love the mirror reflection, ^^"
Spoiler of the picture? Me? Ian? Chan?
Wai Yen, Me and Apple
Group photo after lunch
Willliam has the brightest smile, agree with that?
Lee Hui with my leg, lol~~~
Photos section again at the end of the dayFriday, May 23, 2008
Feeling Better Now?
Erm... Friends that know me, maybe will curious that why am I so down recently. I thought I didn't show my emotion out, but you all noticed about that. Maybe I am just too noob to hide my feelings. I thought I can handle it all by myself, just, I am not as strong as I think of myself.
A friend told me once, I am the strongest girl he know. I am strong in my own way. However, do I? I don't know about that, not sure at all. This is the impression I gave to others, or others didn't notice that I am really not that type of girl? Strong? Tough? No idea at all...
By the way, I received many many concern from you all, really touch for that.
I am feeling better now. Start to realise that, although I knew that long time ago, my life is not just such a small part. There are still many things in it. It can be fill of tons of other things. I neglected all those things for such a long time. I am trying hard to let go now. Hopefully I can do it.
虽然痛苦还在，但，雨过，总会天晴吧？
A friend told me once, I am the strongest girl he know. I am strong in my own way. However, do I? I don't know about that, not sure at all. This is the impression I gave to others, or others didn't notice that I am really not that type of girl? Strong? Tough? No idea at all...
By the way, I received many many concern from you all, really touch for that.
I am feeling better now. Start to realise that, although I knew that long time ago, my life is not just such a small part. There are still many things in it. It can be fill of tons of other things. I neglected all those things for such a long time. I am trying hard to let go now. Hopefully I can do it.
虽然痛苦还在，但，雨过，总会天晴吧？
Thursday, May 22, 2008
如何让他更爱你 (转载)
男人是一所很好的学校，能把女人调教得光彩夺目。我们的爱情总是千疮百孔，受一次伤又老一次。女人任时光雕彩得越发精致，到最后她已经很难再爱上一个人，如果谁让她爱上，那是福气。因为她懂得如何爱你，懂得风情万种又不失端庄。
我 知道那是一种类似狐狸转世的修炼。除了上天赋予的美貌和智能外还有很多个人的特质。女人要先爱自己再修炼，不要怕男人不爱你，妖精没有年龄。那么，我 们现在就来学着做一个聪明的八面玲珑的小妖精吧。大多数女人得到的信息是男生一般比较喜欢温柔娴静的女人，事实上，对付男人要懂得分寸。其实这并不难，不 要一味顺从，学会生气，学会吃醋，学会撒娇，学会野蛮。你越是难以掌握，他越是想靠近你征服你。即使再爱一个人，爱进骨子里，在对他施爱时也应该有张有 弛。这样才会有健康美满的爱情。
在爱情里，学着掌握主动权。怎样才可以让他更爱你呢？首先美丽依旧是不变的致命招数。女人要自己美丽 自己，学会打扮，学会抓住男人的心。美丽，不是单纯的外表，而是要从心到外的改造过程。传说中孔雀翎是世间最致命的暗器，它出现时，就如同所有的鲜花在同 时间开放，灿烂而眩目。对任何人来说，要想看住自己的爱人，就必须让自己像孔雀翎般灿烂，让他无瑕“他”顾。
当然，如果有的男人实在 太过分，当你忍无可忍时，你也可以选择使用武力。何况在现今，野蛮也已经成为一种潮流。你要时刻敲打你的男友，让他对你产生敬畏之情，如果真的实在无法挽 回，你也不妨真的用拳头解决一下你的怒气，这样也不是未尝不可的，但切记不要把他打得太严重哦。
有的女人视爱情如生命，他是她的全部 和唯一，他的喜怒哀乐甚至一个喷嚏都能牵动她的心。两个人吵架，先低头的也是自己。正因为这样往往就会纵容他，让他更加骄傲和蛮横，以为你铁定不会离开 他。太多的男人要比女人更富有创造力，他们往往不满足于拥有一次选择的机会，尤其是对自己死心塌地的女人他更不懂珍惜。因此，应该做个聪明的女人，减掉纵 容，增加交际。
除了他，你可以试着交往别的异性朋友，一定要有几个男性朋友，没有非分之想，能在受到委屈时拿胸口当沙包给你锤的，你 也能帮他出主意追女朋友，并可以深夜里把他从床上揪起来去很远的地方接你。当然，要在对应的环境里面扮演适宜的角色，分清主次。一来可以丰富自己的生活， 二来可以借机多了解一下男人，三来他如果真的在乎你，他就会设身处地的去体会你孤守一人世界时的滋味了。
做个聪明的女人。如果一个男 人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心， 最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快 要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧勒死了他。
当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。
你 可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越 千山万水的去看望一个人。孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。万一不小心喝醉了酒， 不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。
从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。还有，不要24小时都想念同一个人，可以分一点给家人和朋友。
如 果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让 那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当 然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。
如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自 己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。爱那个爱你的人，如 果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你，趁早分开。女人不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，那么就先学 会自己欣赏风景。
在爱情里，要时刻学会做个睿智的女子，学会从容面对爱情也就学会了面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。幸福不是靠命运，是靠自己掌握的。那么，从现在起，我们是不是该学着做一个聪明的女人了呢？
文章里的所有，我都做不到！所以，这就是我总是受伤的原因吗？
我 知道那是一种类似狐狸转世的修炼。除了上天赋予的美貌和智能外还有很多个人的特质。女人要先爱自己再修炼，不要怕男人不爱你，妖精没有年龄。那么，我 们现在就来学着做一个聪明的八面玲珑的小妖精吧。大多数女人得到的信息是男生一般比较喜欢温柔娴静的女人，事实上，对付男人要懂得分寸。其实这并不难，不 要一味顺从，学会生气，学会吃醋，学会撒娇，学会野蛮。你越是难以掌握，他越是想靠近你征服你。即使再爱一个人，爱进骨子里，在对他施爱时也应该有张有 弛。这样才会有健康美满的爱情。
在爱情里，学着掌握主动权。怎样才可以让他更爱你呢？首先美丽依旧是不变的致命招数。女人要自己美丽 自己，学会打扮，学会抓住男人的心。美丽，不是单纯的外表，而是要从心到外的改造过程。传说中孔雀翎是世间最致命的暗器，它出现时，就如同所有的鲜花在同 时间开放，灿烂而眩目。对任何人来说，要想看住自己的爱人，就必须让自己像孔雀翎般灿烂，让他无瑕“他”顾。
当然，如果有的男人实在 太过分，当你忍无可忍时，你也可以选择使用武力。何况在现今，野蛮也已经成为一种潮流。你要时刻敲打你的男友，让他对你产生敬畏之情，如果真的实在无法挽 回，你也不妨真的用拳头解决一下你的怒气，这样也不是未尝不可的，但切记不要把他打得太严重哦。
有的女人视爱情如生命，他是她的全部 和唯一，他的喜怒哀乐甚至一个喷嚏都能牵动她的心。两个人吵架，先低头的也是自己。正因为这样往往就会纵容他，让他更加骄傲和蛮横，以为你铁定不会离开 他。太多的男人要比女人更富有创造力，他们往往不满足于拥有一次选择的机会，尤其是对自己死心塌地的女人他更不懂珍惜。因此，应该做个聪明的女人，减掉纵 容，增加交际。
除了他，你可以试着交往别的异性朋友，一定要有几个男性朋友，没有非分之想，能在受到委屈时拿胸口当沙包给你锤的，你 也能帮他出主意追女朋友，并可以深夜里把他从床上揪起来去很远的地方接你。当然，要在对应的环境里面扮演适宜的角色，分清主次。一来可以丰富自己的生活， 二来可以借机多了解一下男人，三来他如果真的在乎你，他就会设身处地的去体会你孤守一人世界时的滋味了。
做个聪明的女人。如果一个男 人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心， 最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快 要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧勒死了他。
当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。
你 可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？疯狂的事情经历一次就好，比如翻越 千山万水的去看望一个人。孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。万一不小心喝醉了酒， 不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。
从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。还有，不要24小时都想念同一个人，可以分一点给家人和朋友。
如 果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让 那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当 然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。
如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自 己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。爱那个爱你的人，如 果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你，趁早分开。女人不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，那么就先学 会自己欣赏风景。
在爱情里，要时刻学会做个睿智的女子，学会从容面对爱情也就学会了面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。幸福不是靠命运，是靠自己掌握的。那么，从现在起，我们是不是该学着做一个聪明的女人了呢？
文章里的所有，我都做不到！所以，这就是我总是受伤的原因吗？
Saturday, May 17, 2008
I am sick again
A week is over again. I had no idea at all how I been through this week. Two group assignments due, and both of them I started at the last minute. I was rushing like hell this week. Everyday asssignment, assignment, and assignment. I stay at library till around 7 pm everyday, freezing there doing my works. I even forget to brought my jacket to campus one day. I really hate last minute works now!
Because of lack of sleeping, drink less water, eat not been on time, I ended up sick again. Flu, please don't come and kill me now. Headache, get away from me. Stomachache, don't come near me also. I am sick enough now. Some more, all thing are keep on urging me to run faster to achieve them.
The feeling is back when I was in secondary school now. I don't want to run and rushing all the way. I only want to walk slowly to see and admire the surrounding beside me, I want to experience new things that can make my life different. Yet, I can't. I don't have the control over all those! These are the systematic risk that I can't avoid, that I need to deal with. I don't mind there are more umsystematic risk, but please, just not systematic risk!
Because of lack of sleeping, drink less water, eat not been on time, I ended up sick again. Flu, please don't come and kill me now. Headache, get away from me. Stomachache, don't come near me also. I am sick enough now. Some more, all thing are keep on urging me to run faster to achieve them.
The feeling is back when I was in secondary school now. I don't want to run and rushing all the way. I only want to walk slowly to see and admire the surrounding beside me, I want to experience new things that can make my life different. Yet, I can't. I don't have the control over all those! These are the systematic risk that I can't avoid, that I need to deal with. I don't mind there are more umsystematic risk, but please, just not systematic risk!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Its Sunday Today
I really have no idea at all how I get through this whole week. The whole week I was like staying at library, meeting for assignments, attend classes, go out and play and doing nothing at all!!! The feeling is kind of weird and annoying. Others are very busy with their studies as final is coming soon. Yet, I don't know myself so busy with what. Slept less than 12 hours past 3 days, end up dizzy for fews days. I am very tired now.
Curtin graduation ceremony was held on last Friday. Congratulation to all old friends that coming back for the graduation. Miss all of you and glad to see you all again although I didn't hang out with you all.
I went to Marketing Club industrial visit yesterday morning. Need to wake up early in the morning, as mention before, I am lack of sleeping, it was really hard to drag myself out from the bed. However, I have to wake up. The visit was fun, how I know how the operation to make door, cupboard all that. It is really not a easy thing for us to come and work in the future. We need all the knowledge, and some of the knowledge we can't get it in the text book. The Samling housing company treat us very nice. At the end of the visit, they gave each of us a souvenir, which is cabinet that used to export to USA and been sold for USD 70 each. WOW!!! Cool, right? ^^
Waiting for the call from an aunty now. I hope she able to phone me as it is raining now and the phone line is worst.
At last, Happy Mother's Day to mummy~~ I love you, Mum!!!
Curtin graduation ceremony was held on last Friday. Congratulation to all old friends that coming back for the graduation. Miss all of you and glad to see you all again although I didn't hang out with you all.
I went to Marketing Club industrial visit yesterday morning. Need to wake up early in the morning, as mention before, I am lack of sleeping, it was really hard to drag myself out from the bed. However, I have to wake up. The visit was fun, how I know how the operation to make door, cupboard all that. It is really not a easy thing for us to come and work in the future. We need all the knowledge, and some of the knowledge we can't get it in the text book. The Samling housing company treat us very nice. At the end of the visit, they gave each of us a souvenir, which is cabinet that used to export to USA and been sold for USD 70 each. WOW!!! Cool, right? ^^
Waiting for the call from an aunty now. I hope she able to phone me as it is raining now and the phone line is worst.
At last, Happy Mother's Day to mummy~~ I love you, Mum!!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
Interesting Email that I received
男人@ 訂婚前好像---孫子 對女友百依百順 ,關心有加，忍氣吞聲
@訂婚後好像 ---兒子 已經開始頂嘴，開始有個人的意見
@ 結婚後好像--- 老子 已經變成名符其實的老爺，由他發號施令
女人@ 訂婚前好像 ---燕子 愛怎麼飛就怎麼飛，不受拘束自由自在
@訂婚後好像 ---鴿子 雖然能飛，但必須回家
@結婚後好像--- 鴨子 再也不能亂飛，祇有看家守著老子
有人說，一個人過了二十五歲就該為自己的外貌負責任；我想， 男人最應該為女人的外貌負責任。
一個清麗脫俗的女人跟 了一個俗不可耐的男人，日子久了，女人也會變得很庸俗，她的五官沒有改變，皮膚依然白皙，但是 她的氣質總是比不上從前了。
我們總是被我們所愛的東西定型，一個女人愛上一個怎樣的男人，她就會變成一個怎樣的女人；女人不 美，是男人的責任。
一個本來很漂亮的女人愈來愈憔悴， 那麼，一定是她的男人待她不好，
她有 憂傷，才會失去光彩。
一個本性馴良的女人愈來愈潑辣，那麼，一定是她的男人不爭氣，她只好比他強。
一個 清秀的女人變得愈來愈冶艷，那麼，一定是她的男人不能滿足她，她只好把風情投向其他男人。
一個 本來很高貴的女人變得愈來愈隨便，那麼，她的男人一定是個沒上進心的人， 所以，她也失去了上進心。
一個 本來 很平凡的女人，變得愈來愈漂亮，愈來愈有氣質，舉手投足愈來愈有味道，那當然是她的男人的功勞。
男人千萬 不要抱怨身邊的女人愈來愈 難看，她不好看， 問題一定 出在你身上。
@訂婚後好像 ---兒子 已經開始頂嘴，開始有個人的意見
@ 結婚後好像--- 老子 已經變成名符其實的老爺，由他發號施令
女人@ 訂婚前好像 ---燕子 愛怎麼飛就怎麼飛，不受拘束自由自在
@訂婚後好像 ---鴿子 雖然能飛，但必須回家
@結婚後好像--- 鴨子 再也不能亂飛，祇有看家守著老子
有人說，一個人過了二十五歲就該為自己的外貌負責任；我想， 男人最應該為女人的外貌負責任。
一個清麗脫俗的女人跟 了一個俗不可耐的男人，日子久了，女人也會變得很庸俗，她的五官沒有改變，皮膚依然白皙，但是 她的氣質總是比不上從前了。
我們總是被我們所愛的東西定型，一個女人愛上一個怎樣的男人，她就會變成一個怎樣的女人；女人不 美，是男人的責任。
一個本來很漂亮的女人愈來愈憔悴， 那麼，一定是她的男人待她不好，
她有 憂傷，才會失去光彩。
一個本性馴良的女人愈來愈潑辣，那麼，一定是她的男人不爭氣，她只好比他強。
一個 清秀的女人變得愈來愈冶艷，那麼，一定是她的男人不能滿足她，她只好把風情投向其他男人。
一個 本來很高貴的女人變得愈來愈隨便，那麼，她的男人一定是個沒上進心的人， 所以，她也失去了上進心。
一個 本來 很平凡的女人，變得愈來愈漂亮，愈來愈有氣質，舉手投足愈來愈有味道，那當然是她的男人的功勞。
男人千萬 不要抱怨身邊的女人愈來愈 難看，她不好看， 問題一定 出在你身上。
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